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Anal Beads: What are they and How to use them?

Anal beads are small beads on a sturdy string with a ring on one end. The beads are usually inserted into the rectum very gently, one bead at a time. It is very important to have the beads well lubricated when inserting them. The main reason for using anal beads is for the additional stimulation of pulling them out when having an orgasm. People have reported that they have experienced a very intense orgasm when using anal beads. It’s the shuddering waves of pleasure washing over your body as each bead is slowly pulled out, that intensifies the orgasm. I know the best feature of...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin

Common Questions about Anal Sex

Does anal sex hurt? There is absolutely no reason why anal sex should be a painful or traumatic experience. It has been said that many of us carry a lot of tension in our lower bodies, making the anus an even more sensitive an area. Anal play can relieve some of this tension. If you stay in tune with your body, during this type of play, you can actually develop muscle leading to more intense orgasms. A warm bath may help to relax not only the area, but your whole being as well. If for any reason, you do begin to feel pain, restrain from inserting any...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin

Erotic Massage 101 Article

In our culture, we sorely lack in physical contact with each other. In other countries, especially the Mediterranean, touch is very important. It doesn’t always mean that the person who’s touching wants sex. It’s not considered sexual harassment. Humans need that caring physical contact, on a daily basis. That’s what’s so wonderful about massage. It allows us to experience that sensual world of touch without the pressures of having sex. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with ending a massage with sex, but...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin

Intimacy and Relationships

Intimacy involves feelings of emotional closeness and connectedness with another person and the desire to share each other's innermost thoughts and feelings. Intimate relationships are characterized by attitudes of mutual trust, caring, and acceptance. A key part of our sexuality is our ability to be intimate: the ability to love, trust and care for others in both sexual and other types of relationships. We learn about intimacy from those relationships around us, particularly within our families. In order to have true intimacy with others, a person must be willing to take...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin


Our bodies experience sensation through the five senses: touch, smell, sight, hearing, and taste. When perceived as enjoyable, any of these senses can be sensual. Sensuality is based on the physiological and psychological enjoyment of one's own body and the bodies of others. As such, the enjoyment of sensuality can expand your awareness and increase your sense of comfort in and appreciation of your own body.  Sensuality and our senses  Touch: Our bodies are sensitive to touch and pressure Smell: Human beings emit pheromones, which are chemical substances...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin

What is sexuality?

In its broadest sense "sexuality" describes the whole way a person goes about expressing themself as a sexual being. It describes how important sexual expression is in a person's life, how one chooses to express that sexuality, and any preference one may have towards the type of sexual partner they choose. The way we choose to behave sexually is as individual and complicated as the ways we choose to dress or earn a living. Human sexuality rarely falls into neat categories or lends itself to simple labelling, but rather is a rich and complex area of human experience. Why...


January 23, 2018 Natalie Bourgoin

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